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Ancestry report for Sarah Grey [Relf], daughter of Thomas Relfe, labourer and Elizabeth Relf [Atkins]
Generation No. 1
1. Sarah Grey [Relf] was the daughter of (2) Thomas Relfe, labourer and (3) Elizabeth Relf [Atkins]. She was born 1802 at Brightling, Sussex; christened 31st Oct 1802 at St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died 14th Nov 1874 at Moor Hill, Hawkhurst, Kent
She married John Gray on 6th Apr 1827 at St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent, witnesses: Elizabeth Osborne and Thomas Piper. He was born 1799 at Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 22nd Mar 1799 at St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died 29th Dec 1865 at Horns, Hawkhurst, Kent, aged 64 years; buried after 29th Dec 1865 at St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent. They had the following children:
iMary who was born c May 1827 Hawkhurst, Kent
iiJohn who was born 1828 Hawkhurst, Kent
iiiWilliam who was born 1831 Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 7th Aug 1831 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died 13th Oct 1901 Tarnagulla, Victoria, Australia
ivElizabeth who was born 1835 Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 21st Jun 1835 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died 11th May 1881 Silverhill, Salehurst, Sussex, aged 46 years
vEliza who was born 1838 Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 27th May 1838 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died 3rd Oct 1863 Horns Hill, Hawkhurst, Kent, aged 25 years
viThomas who was born 1840 Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 17th May 1840 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died Apr 1843 Hawkhurst, Kent, aged 3 years; buried 16th Apr 1843 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent
viiSarah who was born 1844 Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 8th Sep 1844 St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent; died 20th Aug 1874 Moor Hill, Hawkhurst, Kent, cause of death: Typhoid fever
 
Generation No. 2
2. Thomas Relfe, labourer was the son of (4) Thomas Relf and (5) Margaret Relf [Nash]. He was born 1774 at Brightling, Sussex; christened 21st Jan 1774 at St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died 18th Feb 1852 at Brightling, Sussex
He married Elizabeth Atkins on 4th Apr 1795 at St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex. She was born 1775 at Brightling, Sussex; died Oct 1860 at Dallington, Sussex. They had the following children:
iElizabeth who was born c Jul 1795 Brightling, Sussex; christened 23rd Aug 1795 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relfe and Elizabeth Relfe
iiThomas who was born 10th Nov 1797 Brightling, Sussex; christened 17th Dec 1797 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Elizabeth Relfe; died 22nd Jan 1880 Brightling, Sussex
iiiRose who was born 1800 Brightling, Sussex; christened 28th Sep 1800 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died Apr 1815 Brightling, Sussex
ivSarah who was born 1802 Brightling, Sussex; christened 31st Oct 1802 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died 14th Nov 1874 Moor Hill, Hawkhurst, Kent
vMary who was born 1804 Brightling, Sussex; christened 16th Dec 1804 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
viMichael who was born 1807 Brightling, Sussex; christened 30th Aug 1807 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died Jun 1829 Brightling, Sussex
viiHarriot who was born 1809 Brightling, Sussex; christened 24th Sep 1809 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
viiiMargarett who was born 1811 Brightling, Sussex; christened 17th Nov 1811 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
ixJohn who was born 1814 Brightling, Sussex; christened 2nd Jan 1814 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf; died 4th Jan 1843 Brightling, Sussex
xSophia who was born 1816 Brightling, Sussex; christened 4th Feb 1816 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf
xiRose who was born 1818 Brightling, Sussex; christened 29th Mar 1818 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Tho. Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf; died 1898 Lewes, Sussex
 
3. Elizabeth Relf [Atkins] She was born 1775 at Brightling, Sussex; died Oct 1860 at Dallington, Sussex
She married Thomas Relfe, labourer on 4th Apr 1795 at St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex. He was born 1774 at Brightling, Sussex; christened 21st Jan 1774 at St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died 18th Feb 1852 at Brightling, Sussex. They had the following children:
iElizabeth who was born c Jul 1795 Brightling, Sussex; christened 23rd Aug 1795 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relfe and Elizabeth Relfe
iiThomas who was born 10th Nov 1797 Brightling, Sussex; christened 17th Dec 1797 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Elizabeth Relfe; died 22nd Jan 1880 Brightling, Sussex
iiiRose who was born 1800 Brightling, Sussex; christened 28th Sep 1800 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died Apr 1815 Brightling, Sussex
ivSarah who was born 1802 Brightling, Sussex; christened 31st Oct 1802 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died 14th Nov 1874 Moor Hill, Hawkhurst, Kent
vMary who was born 1804 Brightling, Sussex; christened 16th Dec 1804 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
viMichael who was born 1807 Brightling, Sussex; christened 30th Aug 1807 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf; died Jun 1829 Brightling, Sussex
viiHarriot who was born 1809 Brightling, Sussex; christened 24th Sep 1809 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
viiiMargarett who was born 1811 Brightling, Sussex; christened 17th Nov 1811 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Elizabeth Relf
ixJohn who was born 1814 Brightling, Sussex; christened 2nd Jan 1814 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf; died 4th Jan 1843 Brightling, Sussex
xSophia who was born 1816 Brightling, Sussex; christened 4th Feb 1816 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf
xiRose who was born 1818 Brightling, Sussex; christened 29th Mar 1818 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Tho. Relf (labourer) and Elizabeth Relf; died 1898 Lewes, Sussex
 
Generation No. 3
4. Thomas Relf He was born c 1745
He married Margaret Nash on 26th Jun 1770 at The Assumption & St. Nicholas Church, Etchingham, Sussex. She was born 1747; died Apr 1816 at Brightling, Sussex. They had the following children:
iFrances who was born 1772 Brightling, Sussex; christened 20th Jan 1772 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relph and Margaret Relph; died c Dec 1827
iiThomas who was born 1774 Brightling, Sussex; christened 21st Jan 1774 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died 18th Feb 1852 Brightling, Sussex
iiiHenry who was born 1777 Brightling, Sussex; christened 10th Jan 1777 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf; died Feb 1777
ivAnne who was born 1777 Brightling, Sussex; christened 10th Jan 1777 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf; died Feb 1777
vJohn who was born 1778 Brightling, Sussex; christened 14th Feb 1778 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died Apr 1858
viHester who was born 1780 Brightling, Sussex; christened 23rd Sep 1780 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
viiWilliam who was born 1782 Brightling, Sussex; christened 16th Aug 1782 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and … Relf
viiiJenny who was born 1785 Brightling, Sussex; christened 7th May 1785 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
ixBetty who was born 1787 Brightling, Sussex; christened 8th Jun 1787 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
xPhiladelphia who was born 1788 Brightling, Sussex; christened 28th Dec 1788 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf, widow of Thomas
 
5. Margaret Relf [Nash] She was born 1747; died Apr 1816 at Brightling, Sussex
She married Thomas Relf on 26th Jun 1770 at The Assumption & St. Nicholas Church, Etchingham, Sussex. He was born c 1745. They had the following children:
iFrances who was born 1772 Brightling, Sussex; christened 20th Jan 1772 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relph and Margaret Relph; died c Dec 1827
iiThomas who was born 1774 Brightling, Sussex; christened 21st Jan 1774 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died 18th Feb 1852 Brightling, Sussex
iiiHenry who was born 1777 Brightling, Sussex; christened 10th Jan 1777 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf; died Feb 1777
ivAnne who was born 1777 Brightling, Sussex; christened 10th Jan 1777 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf; died Feb 1777
vJohn who was born 1778 Brightling, Sussex; christened 14th Feb 1778 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relfe and Margaret Relfe; died Apr 1858
viHester who was born 1780 Brightling, Sussex; christened 23rd Sep 1780 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
viiWilliam who was born 1782 Brightling, Sussex; christened 16th Aug 1782 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and … Relf
viiiJenny who was born 1785 Brightling, Sussex; christened 7th May 1785 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
ixBetty who was born 1787 Brightling, Sussex; christened 8th Jun 1787 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and … Relf
xPhiladelphia who was born 1788 Brightling, Sussex; christened 28th Dec 1788 St. Thomas-à-Becket Church, Brightling, Sussex, daughter of Thomas Relf and Margaret Relf, widow of Thomas
 

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