The Weald of Kent, Surrey and Sussex
Descendant's report for Hannah Harmer [Relf] [Jarman]
Generation No. 1
  1. Hannah Harmer [Relf] [Jarman] She was born 1756 at Ewhurst, Sussex; christened 16th May 1756 at St. James & St. Mark, Ewhurst, Sussex, parents Harry & Sarah Jarman; buried 19th Feb 1843 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, aged 87 years
  She married (1) Thomas Relf on 12th Oct 1777 at The Assumption & St. Nicholas Church, Etchingham, Sussex. He was born 1754 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 6th Aug 1754 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex, son of Thomas Relf and Mary Relf; buried 4th Apr 1792 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iThomas who was born 1778 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Sep 1778 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; buried 12th Oct 1787 Heathfield, Sussex, son of Thomas & Hannah
2 iiSusanna who was born 1780 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Jun 1780 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiZebulon who was born 1782 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 9th Jun 1782 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
3 ivHannah who was born 1784 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Apr 1784 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died Feb 1859 Ticehurst, Sussex, aged 73 years; buried 20th Feb 1859 Ticehurst, Sussex
  vJesse who was born 1786 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 28th Jan 1787 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; buried 1st Mar 1787 Heathfield, Sussex
4 viJames who was born 1788 at Heathfield, Sussex, no baptism record found assumed parents are Thomas & Hannah as only couple having children in Heathfield; buried 13th Jan 1871 Heathfield, Sussex, aged 83 years
  viiJeremiah who was born 1790 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 21st Nov 1790 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; buried 17th Oct 1791 Heathfield, Sussex
  She married (2) John Harmer on 13th Sep 1795 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. He was born c 1765; buried 15th Jun 1838 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, aged 76 years. They had the following children:
  iAnn who was born Oct 1795 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 25th Oct 1795 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iiRebecca who was born 1798 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 28th Jan 1798 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
   
Generation No. 2
  2. Susanna Vitler [Relfe] was the daughter of Thomas Relf and Hannah Harmer [Relf] [Jarman]. She was born 1780 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Jun 1780 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iRichard who was born 1799 at Mayfield, Sussex; christened 17th Nov 1799 St. Dunstan Church, Mayfield, Sussex, son of Richard Vidler and Susanna Relfe
  She married Richard Vidler on 9th Jun 1802 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex. He was born 1781 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 25th Mar 1781 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iThomas who was born c Oct 1802 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 10th Oct 1802 St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex
  iiGeorge who was born 1804 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 10th Feb 1804 St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex
   
  3. Hannah Barefoot [Relf] was the daughter of Thomas Relf and Hannah Harmer [Relf] [Jarman]. She was born 1784 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Apr 1784 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died Feb 1859 at Ticehurst, Sussex, aged 73 years; buried 20th Feb 1859 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  She married John Barefoot on 24th Nov 1805 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex, witnesses George and Hannah Kemp. He was born 1780 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 6th Nov 1780 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex; died 1859 at Ticehurst, Sussex, aged 76 years; buried 1st Jun 1859 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iJohn who was born 1807 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 11th Jan 1807 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  iiMary who was born 1808 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 27th Mar 1808 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
5 iiiHenry who was born 1809 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 15th Oct 1809 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  ivJane who was born 1811 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 22nd Dec 1811 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  vSusan who was born 1813 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 19th Dec 1813 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  viElizabeth who was born 1820 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 31st Mar 1820 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
   
  4. James Relf, farmer was the son of Thomas Relf and Hannah Harmer [Relf] [Jarman]. He was born 1788 at Heathfield, Sussex, no baptism record found assumed parents are Thomas & Hannah as only couple having children in Heathfield; buried 13th Jan 1871 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, aged 83 years
  He married Kezia Collins on 27th Jun 1809 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex. She was born 1791 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Mar 1791 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, daughter of Joseph Collins and Keziah Collons; died Nov 1868 at Heathfield, Sussex; buried 21st Nov 1868 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iElizabeth who was born 1810 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 1810 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
6 iiSophia who was born 1813 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 31st Oct 1813 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
7 iiiJames who was born 1816 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 24th Mar 1816 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
8 ivKezia who was born 1818 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Jan 1819 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
9 vDavid who was born 1823 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 7th Dec 1823 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died 17th Jan 1901 Heathfield, Sussex
   
Generation No. 3
  5. Henry Barefoot, farm labourer was the son of John Barefoot and Hannah Barefoot [Relf]. He was born 1809 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 15th Oct 1809 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex
  He married Mary Ann Oxenbridge on 6th Jun 1832 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex, witnesses: James Alburn and Frances Barefoot. She was born 1812 at Ticehurst, Sussex; died Aug 1880 at Ticehurst, Sussex, aged 69 years; buried 9th Aug 1880 at St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iGeorge who was born 1834 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 31st Aug 1834 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex, christened as George Barefoot; died 20th Dec 1834 Ticehurst, Sussex, aged 6 monthd; buried 26th Dec 1834 Ticehurst, Sussex
  iiHenry who was born 1836 at Ticehurst, Sussex; christened 8th May 1836 St. Mary the Virgin Church, Ticehurst, Sussex, christened as Henry Bearfoot
  iiiAlfred who was born 1839 at Ticehurst, Sussex
10 ivAmos who was born 1842 at Ticehurst, Sussex
   
  6. Sophia Thompson [Relf] was the daughter of James Relf, farmer and Kezia Relf [Collins]. She was born 1813 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 31st Oct 1813 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  She married Richard Thompson, farm labourer on 29th Oct 1830 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. He was born 1810 at Warbleton, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iLois who was born 1837 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiHorace who was born 1842 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiEllen who was born 1845 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ivTrayton Richard who was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  7. James Relf, miller and farmer was the son of James Relf, farmer and Kezia Relf [Collins]. He was born 1816 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 24th Mar 1816 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Harriet Ellis on 15th Jan 1843 at St John the Baptist Church, Southover, Lewes, Sussex, registered at Lewes District, Sussex, ref: 1843 Q1 Vol 7 Page 439. She was born 1825 at Hawkhurst, Kent; christened 13th Nov 1825 at St Laurence Church, Hawkhurst, Kent. They had the following children:
  iGeorge who was born 1844 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiElinenah who was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiWalter who was born 1849 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ivThomas James who was born Jul 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  8. Kezia Luck [Relf] was the daughter of James Relf, farmer and Kezia Relf [Collins]. She was born 1818 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Jan 1819 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iZebulon who was born 1834 at Heathfield, Sussex, base born; christened 23rd Feb 1834 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  She married Joseph Luck on 18th Feb 1835 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. He was born 1805 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 18th Aug 1805 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex, son of Henry Luck & Mary Luck. They had the following children:
  iSelina who was born Nov 1835 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 15th Nov 1835 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, daughter of Joseph Luck (labourer) & Kezia Luck
11 iiJames who was born 1838 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 11th Mar 1838 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, son of Joseph Luck (labourer) & Kezia Luck
  iiiThomas who was born 1841 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ivMary A. who was born 1843 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  9. David Relf, wheelwright was the son of James Relf, farmer and Kezia Relf [Collins]. He was born 1823 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 7th Dec 1823 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died 17th Jan 1901 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married (1) Jemima Mepham Harmer on 24th Oct 1842 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Horace Haffenden & Susan Relfe. She was born 1822 at Heathfield, Sussex; died 4th Nov 1886 at Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
12 iEllen who was born 1845 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Feb 1845 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
13 iiThomas who was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Oct 1846 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
14 iiiDavid who was born 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex
15 ivRuth who was born July to Sep 1852 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1852 Q3 Vol 2B Page 67
16 vJames Michael who was born Oct to Dec 1856 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1856 Q4 Vol 2B Page 63
17 viRichard Asher who was born Oct to Dec 1859 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1859 Q4 Vol 2B Page 67
  He married (2) Rhoda Duplock on Jan to Mar 1887 at Hailsham, Sussex. She was born 21st Jun 1826 at Rotherfield, Sussex; christened 4th Jan 1829 at St. Denys Church, Rotherfield, Sussex
   
Generation No. 4
  10. Amos Barfoot, shopkeeper was the son of Henry Barefoot, farm labourer and Mary Ann Barfoot [Oxenbridge]. He was born 1842 at Ticehurst, Sussex
  He married Ann on c 1865. She was born 1835 at Goudhurst, Kent. They had the following children:
  iAlfred E. A. who was born 1873 at Ticehurst, Sussex
  iiFlorence G. who was born 1876 at Ticehurst, Sussex
  iiiAnn E. who was born 1878 at Ticehurst, Sussex
  ivCharles J A who was born 1882 at Flimwell, Sussex
   
  11. James Luck, farm labourer was the son of Joseph Luck and Kezia Luck [Relf]. He was born 1838 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 11th Mar 1838 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, son of Joseph Luck (labourer) & Kezia Luck
  He married Eliza on c 1860. She was born 1840 at Chiddingstone, Kent. They had the following children:
  iHenry J. who was born 1862 at Tonbridge, Kent
  iiWilliam who was born 1864 at Tonbridge, Kent
  iiiAnnie who was born 1868 at Tonbridge, Kent
  ivElizabeth who was born 1871 at Tonbridge, Kent
  vMary who was born 1873 at Tonbridge, Kent
  viThomas who was born 1875 at Tonbridge, Kent
  viiWalter who was born 1877 at Tonbridge, Kent
  viiiLucy T. who was born 1880 at Tonbridge, Kent
   
  12. Ellen Taylor [Relf] was the daughter of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. She was born 1845 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Feb 1845 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  She married John Taylor on 4th Feb 1863 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex. He was born 1840 at South Malling, Sussex; christened 15th Apr 1840 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex, parents Robert & Rebecca Taylor
   
  13. Thomas Relf, farm labourer was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Oct 1846 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Mary Ann Smith on 12th Jan 1870 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses David Relf & Mary Ann Dinnage. She was born 1851 at Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iLouisa who was born 1871 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiAnn who was born 1873 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiThomas who was born 1875 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ivCharles who was born 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex
  vDavid who was born 1879 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  14. David Relf, sergeant of police was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Louisa East on Jan to Mar 1874, registered at East Grinstead District, Sussex, ref: 1874 Q1 Vol 2b Page 177. She was born 1846 at Tunbridge Wells, Kent. They had the following children:
  iWilliam D who was born 1877 at Nutley, Sussex
  iiAda L who was born 1883 at Lewes, Sussex
  iiiSydney A who was born 1887 at Hartfield, Sussex
  ivEdith E who was born 1890 at Hartfield, Sussex
   
  15. Ruth Smith [Hosman] [Relf] was the daughter of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. She was born July to Sep 1852 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1852 Q3 Vol 2B Page 67
  She married (1) Lilly Thomas Hosman on 15th May 1869 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Thomas Relf & Mary Smith. He was born 1847 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 5th Sep 1847 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died Oct to Dec 1872 at Hailsham, Sussex
  She married (2) Reuben Smith on 29th Nov 1873 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex, witnesses Stephen & Susan Smith. He was born 1850 at Waldron, Sussex
   
  16. James Michael Relf, grocers carrier was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born Oct to Dec 1856 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1856 Q4 Vol 2B Page 63
  He married Rosina Ann Haffenden on 2nd Dec 1876 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1876 Q4 Vol 2b Page 0170, witnesses Alfred Haffenden & Ruth Smith. She was born 9th Feb 1859 at Goudhurst, Kent; christened 27th Mar 1859 at St Mary the Virgin Church, Goudhurst, Kent. They had the following children:
18 iErnest Valentine who was born Jan to Mar 1877 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1877 Q1 Vol 2B Page 88
19 iiAnnie Edith who was born 19th Mar 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1878 Q2 Vol 2B Page 114
20 iiiAmy Beatrice who was born 20th Aug 1880 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1880 Q3 Vol 2B Page 107, 1939 register gives birth year as 1881
  ivAlfred Haffenden who was born 23rd Nov 1882 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1882 Q4 Vol 2B Page 101; died 26th Oct 1958 Heathfield, Sussex
21 vGeorge Graham who was born 13th Aug 1886 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1886 Q3 Vol 2B Page 135
22 viMercy Jemima who was born 5th Feb 1889 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  17. Richard Asher Relf was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born Oct to Dec 1859 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1859 Q4 Vol 2B Page 67
  He married Jane Alma Ellis on 10th Dec 1881 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Edwin Ellis & Eliza Vine. She was born 1855 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Jun 1855 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, parents William & Ann Ellis; died 27th Dec 1938 at Battle, Sussex. They had the following children:
23 iEdith who was born 27th Sep 1882 at Waldron, Sussex
   
Generation No. 5
  18. Ernest Valentine Relf was the son of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. He was born Jan to Mar 1877 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1877 Q1 Vol 2B Page 88
  He married Rose Brook on 30th Apr 1900 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses George Albert & Harriet Ruth Brook. She was born 1872 at Warbleton, Sussex; christened 24th Nov 1872 at St. Mary's Church, Warbleton, Sussex
   
  19. Annie Edith Osborne [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 19th Mar 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1878 Q2 Vol 2B Page 114
  She married William Osborne, bricklayer on 8th Jul 1901 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Kate Louisa Osborne & Alfred Relf. He was born 22nd Jul 1873 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1873 Q3 Vol 2B Page 76
   
  20. Amy Beatrice Keeley [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 20th Aug 1880 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1880 Q3 Vol 2B Page 107, 1939 register gives birth year as 1881
  She married Richard Keeley on 21st Nov 1903 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Ernest Valentine Relf & Helena Keeley. He was born 27th Jan 1880 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uppingham District, Rutland, ref: 1880 Q1 Vol 2B Page 127
   
  21. George Graham Relf was the son of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. He was born 13th Aug 1886 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1886 Q3 Vol 2B Page 135
  He married Mary Leadbetter on 24th Apr 1912 at All Saints Church, Icklesham, Sussex, witnesses Grace Steer, Alfred Laurence & John Leadbetter. She was born 1884 at Icklesham, Sussex; christened 7th Sep 1884 at All Saints Church, Icklesham, Sussex, parents John & Elizabeth Leadbetter
   
  22. Mercy Jemima Keat [Godden] [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 5th Feb 1889 at Heathfield, Sussex
  She married (1) George William Godden, gardener on 27th Apr 1912 at All Saints Church, Herstmonceux, Sussex, witnesses William & Annie Edith Osborne. He was born 1888 at Brighton, Sussex, adopted son of William & Eleanor Jane Godden; died 16th Oct 1915 at Bethune, France, Private, Royal Sussex Regiment. Age: 27.
  She married (2) George Edward Keat on Jan to Mar 1920 at Ashford, Kent, registered at East Ashford District, Kent, ref: 1920 Q1 Vol 2A Page 1757. He was born 7th Jan 1889 at Islington, London; christened 1st Sep 1889 at St Paul's Church, Canonbury, Islington, London, parents Daniel & Anna Eliza Keat
   
  23. Edith Harriott [Relf] was the daughter of Richard Asher Relf and Jane Alma Relf [Ellis]. She was born 27th Sep 1882 at Waldron, Sussex
  She married Alfred Harriott on July to Sep 1908 at Hailsham, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1908 Q3 Vol 2B Page 208. He was born 2nd Jun 1883 at Chailey, Sussex, registered at Lewes District, Sussex, ref: 1883 Q3 Vol 2B Page 179
   

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