The Weald of Kent, Surrey and Sussex
Descendant's report for Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer, son of unknown father and Hannah Harmer [Mepham]
Generation No. 1
  1. Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer was the son of unknown father and Hannah Harmer [Mepham]. He was born 1788 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 9th Nov 1788 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, baseborn son of Hanna Mepham; died Jun 1854 at Heathfield, Sussex, aged 65 years; buried 4th Jun 1854 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Sarah Parsons on 7th Dec 1806 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, Michael Harmer alias Mepham and Sarah Parsons. She was born 1789 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 6th Sep 1789 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, mother Hanna Parsons, baseborn. They had the following children:
  iSarah who was born 1808 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 10th Jul 1808 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Sarah Mepham daughter of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  iiHannah who was born 1810 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Mar 1810 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Hannah Mepham daughter of Michael and Sarah Mepham
2 iiiJohn who was born 1812 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 12th Jan 1812 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as John Mepham son of Michael and Sarah Mepham
3 ivMichael who was born 1814 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 10th Apr 1814 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Michael Mepham son of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  vFrances who was born 1816 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 26th May 1816 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Frances Mepham daughter of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  viThomas who was born 7th Mar 1818 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 5th Apr 1818 Heathfield Chapel, Heathfield, Sussex, ceremony performed by Rev. John Press
  viiPhebe who was born 28th Oct 1819 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Dec 1819 Heathfield Chapel, Heathfield, Sussex, ceremony performed by Rev. John Press
4 viiiJemima Mepham who was born 1822 at Heathfield, Sussex; died 4th Nov 1886 Heathfield, Sussex
5 ixDavid who was born 1824 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xJane who was born 1829 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 30th Aug 1829 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Jane Mepham daughter of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  xiJabez Mepham who was born 1832 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 24th Jun 1832 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
   
Generation No. 2
  2. John Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer was the son of Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer and Sarah Harmer [Parsons]. He was born 1812 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 12th Jan 1812 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as John Mepham son of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  He married Susanna Upfield on 28th Feb 1837 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as John Harmer Mepham and Susanna Upfield. She was born 1815 to 1820 at Sussex. They had the following children:
  iJohn who was born 1838 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 26th Aug 1838 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iiElizabeth who was born 1841 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Jan 1841 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
   
  3. Michael Harmer [Mepham], master bricklayer was the son of Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer and Sarah Harmer [Parsons]. He was born 1814 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 10th Apr 1814 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, recorded as Michael Mepham son of Michael and Sarah Mepham
  He married Mary Ann Eastwood on 7th Jun 1836 at All Saints' Church, Waldron, Sussex, recorded as Michael Harmer Mepham and Mary Ann Eastwood. She was born 1813 at Mayfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iSarah Ann who was born 1837 at Mayfield, Sussex; christened 25th Jun 1837 St. Dunstan Church, Mayfield, Sussex
  iiHarriet who was born 1839 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 14th Apr 1839 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiMichael who was born 1840 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 23rd Aug 1840 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  ivGeorge who was born 1841 at Heathfield, Sussex
  vEsther who was born 1843 at Mayfield, Sussex
  viCharles who was born 1845 at Mayfield, Sussex
  viiJabez who was born 1847 at Mayfield, Sussex
   
  4. Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer] was the daughter of Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer and Sarah Harmer [Parsons]. She was born 1822 at Heathfield, Sussex; died 4th Nov 1886 at Heathfield, Sussex
  She married David Relf, wheelwright on 24th Oct 1842 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Horace Haffenden & Susan Relfe. He was born 1823 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 7th Dec 1823 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died 17th Jan 1901 at Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
6 iEllen who was born 1845 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Feb 1845 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
7 iiThomas who was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Oct 1846 All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
8 iiiDavid who was born 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex
9 ivRuth who was born July to Sep 1852 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1852 Q3 Vol 2B Page 67
10 vJames Michael who was born Oct to Dec 1856 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1856 Q4 Vol 2B Page 63
11 viRichard Asher who was born Oct to Dec 1859 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1859 Q4 Vol 2B Page 67
   
  5. David Harmer, bricklayer was the son of Michael Harmer [Mepham], bricklayer farmer and Sarah Harmer [Parsons]. He was born 1824 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married (1) Elizabeth on c 1846. She was born 1826 at Heathfield, Sussex; died Sep 1876 at Heathfield, Sussex, aged 49 years; buried 9th Sep 1876 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iSarah who was born 1848 at Heathfield, Sussex
12 iiGeorge who was born 1849 at Heathfield, Sussex
13 iiiMichael who was born Aug 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex; buried 20th Nov 1882 Burwash, Sussex
  ivDavid who was born 1851 at Heathfield, Sussex
  vFrances Ann who was born 1853 at Heathfield, Sussex
  viHarriet who was born 1855 at Heathfield, Sussex
  viiJane who was born 1856 at Heathfield, Sussex
  viiiEmily who was born 1858 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ixPhebe who was born 1859 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xAthaliah who was born 1860 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xiJulia who was born 1863 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xiiHannah who was born 1866 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xiiiLaura who was born 1868 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xivMaria who was born 1870 at Heathfield, Sussex
  xvWilliam who was born 1872 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married (2) Elizabeth Harrison on Oct to Dec 1880, registered at Eastbourne District, Sussex, ref: 1880 Q4 Vol 2b Page 111. She was born 1840 at Ashburnham, Sussex
   
Generation No. 3
  6. Ellen Taylor [Relf] was the daughter of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. She was born 1845 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 27th Feb 1845 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  She married John Taylor on 4th Feb 1863 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex. He was born 1840 at South Malling, Sussex; christened 15th Apr 1840 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex, parents Robert & Rebecca Taylor
   
  7. Thomas Relf, farm labourer was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born 1846 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 4th Oct 1846 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Mary Ann Smith on 12th Jan 1870 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses David Relf & Mary Ann Dinnage. She was born 1851 at Heathfield, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iLouisa who was born 1871 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiAnn who was born 1873 at Heathfield, Sussex
  iiiThomas who was born 1875 at Heathfield, Sussex
  ivCharles who was born 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex
  vDavid who was born 1879 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  8. David Relf, sergeant of police was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Louisa East on Jan to Mar 1874, registered at East Grinstead District, Sussex, ref: 1874 Q1 Vol 2b Page 177. She was born 1846 at Tunbridge Wells, Kent. They had the following children:
  iWilliam D who was born 1877 at Nutley, Sussex
  iiAda L who was born 1883 at Lewes, Sussex
  iiiSydney A who was born 1887 at Hartfield, Sussex
  ivEdith E who was born 1890 at Hartfield, Sussex
   
  9. Ruth Smith [Hosman] [Relf] was the daughter of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. She was born July to Sep 1852 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1852 Q3 Vol 2B Page 67
  She married (1) Lilly Thomas Hosman on 15th May 1869 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Thomas Relf & Mary Smith. He was born 1847 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 5th Sep 1847 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex; died Oct to Dec 1872 at Hailsham, Sussex
  She married (2) Reuben Smith on 29th Nov 1873 at St Michael's Church, South Malling, Sussex, witnesses Stephen & Susan Smith. He was born 1850 at Waldron, Sussex
   
  10. James Michael Relf, grocers carrier was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born Oct to Dec 1856 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1856 Q4 Vol 2B Page 63
  He married Rosina Ann Haffenden on 2nd Dec 1876 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1876 Q4 Vol 2b Page 0170, witnesses Alfred Haffenden & Ruth Smith. She was born 9th Feb 1859 at Goudhurst, Kent; christened 27th Mar 1859 at St Mary the Virgin Church, Goudhurst, Kent. They had the following children:
14 iErnest Valentine who was born Jan to Mar 1877 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1877 Q1 Vol 2B Page 88
15 iiAnnie Edith who was born 19th Mar 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1878 Q2 Vol 2B Page 114
16 iiiAmy Beatrice who was born 20th Aug 1880 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1880 Q3 Vol 2B Page 107, 1939 register gives birth year as 1881
  ivAlfred Haffenden who was born 23rd Nov 1882 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1882 Q4 Vol 2B Page 101; died 26th Oct 1958 Heathfield, Sussex
17 vGeorge Graham who was born 13th Aug 1886 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1886 Q3 Vol 2B Page 135
18 viMercy Jemima who was born 5th Feb 1889 at Heathfield, Sussex
   
  11. Richard Asher Relf was the son of David Relf, wheelwright and Jemima Mepham Relf [Harmer]. He was born Oct to Dec 1859 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1859 Q4 Vol 2B Page 67
  He married Jane Alma Ellis on 10th Dec 1881 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Edwin Ellis & Eliza Vine. She was born 1855 at Heathfield, Sussex; christened 3rd Jun 1855 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, parents William & Ann Ellis; died 27th Dec 1938 at Battle, Sussex. They had the following children:
19 iEdith who was born 27th Sep 1882 at Waldron, Sussex
   
  12. George Harmer, coachman was the son of David Harmer, bricklayer and Elizabeth Harmer. He was born 1849 at Heathfield, Sussex
  He married Sophia on c 1875. She was born 1855 at Frant, Sussex
   
  13. Michael Harmer, bricklayer was the son of David Harmer, bricklayer and Elizabeth Harmer. He was born Aug 1850 at Heathfield, Sussex; buried 20th Nov 1882 at St. Philip's Church, Burwash, Sussex
  He married Harriot Sarah Fielder on 25th Dec 1875 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex. She was born 1852 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 5th Sep 1852 at St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex. They had the following children:
  iCharles who was born 1876 at Burwash, Sussex
  iiElizabeth Mary who was born 1877 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 15th Apr 1877 St. Bartholomew's Church, Burwash, Sussex
  iiiAnnie M. who was born 1879 at Burwash, Sussex
  ivMichael George who was born 19th Mar 1882 at Burwash, Sussex; christened 21st May 1882 St. Philip's Church, Burwash, Sussex
   
Generation No. 4
  14. Ernest Valentine Relf was the son of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. He was born Jan to Mar 1877 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1877 Q1 Vol 2B Page 88
  He married Rose Brook on 30th Apr 1900 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses George Albert & Harriet Ruth Brook. She was born 1872 at Warbleton, Sussex; christened 24th Nov 1872 at St. Mary's Church, Warbleton, Sussex
   
  15. Annie Edith Osborne [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 19th Mar 1878 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1878 Q2 Vol 2B Page 114
  She married William Osborne, bricklayer on 8th Jul 1901 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Kate Louisa Osborne & Alfred Relf. He was born 22nd Jul 1873 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1873 Q3 Vol 2B Page 76
   
  16. Amy Beatrice Keeley [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 20th Aug 1880 at Heathfield, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1880 Q3 Vol 2B Page 107, 1939 register gives birth year as 1881
  She married Richard Keeley on 21st Nov 1903 at All Saints Church, Heathfield, Sussex, witnesses Ernest Valentine Relf & Helena Keeley. He was born 27th Jan 1880 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uppingham District, Rutland, ref: 1880 Q1 Vol 2B Page 127
   
  17. George Graham Relf was the son of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. He was born 13th Aug 1886 at Waldron, Sussex, registered at Uckfield District, Sussex, ref: 1886 Q3 Vol 2B Page 135
  He married Mary Leadbetter on 24th Apr 1912 at All Saints Church, Icklesham, Sussex, witnesses Grace Steer, Alfred Laurence & John Leadbetter. She was born 1884 at Icklesham, Sussex; christened 7th Sep 1884 at All Saints Church, Icklesham, Sussex, parents John & Elizabeth Leadbetter
   
  18. Mercy Jemima Keat [Godden] [Relf] was the daughter of James Michael Relf, grocers carrier and Rosina Ann Relf [Haffenden]. She was born 5th Feb 1889 at Heathfield, Sussex
  She married (1) George William Godden, gardener on 27th Apr 1912 at All Saints Church, Herstmonceux, Sussex, witnesses William & Annie Edith Osborne. He was born 1888 at Brighton, Sussex, adopted son of William & Eleanor Jane Godden; died 16th Oct 1915 at Bethune, France, Private, Royal Sussex Regiment. Age: 27.
  She married (2) George Edward Keat on Jan to Mar 1920 at Ashford, Kent, registered at East Ashford District, Kent, ref: 1920 Q1 Vol 2A Page 1757. He was born 7th Jan 1889 at Islington, London; christened 1st Sep 1889 at St Paul's Church, Canonbury, Islington, London, parents Daniel & Anna Eliza Keat
   
  19. Edith Harriott [Relf] was the daughter of Richard Asher Relf and Jane Alma Relf [Ellis]. She was born 27th Sep 1882 at Waldron, Sussex
  She married Alfred Harriott on July to Sep 1908 at Hailsham, Sussex, registered at Hailsham District, Sussex, ref: 1908 Q3 Vol 2B Page 208. He was born 2nd Jun 1883 at Chailey, Sussex, registered at Lewes District, Sussex, ref: 1883 Q3 Vol 2B Page 179
   

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