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|   |   |   |  | 2nd marriage |  | Thomas Jarvis stone mason |  | m: 6th Jun 1853 All Saints (als Holy Trinity Chapel), Danehill, Sussex |  | Susan Gillham |  |   |  |   | b: 15th Dec 1817 Rotherfield, Sussex ch: 8th Feb 1818 St. Denys Church |   | b: 1824 |   |  |   |  |   |   |   |   |   |  |   | Thomas |   | Mary Ann |   | Harriett |   | Alfred |   | Caroline |  |   | b: 1853 Blackness, Crowborough, Sussex ch: 9th Aug 1853 St. Denys Church, Rotherfield, Sussex |   | b: 1859 Fletching, Sussex |   | b: 1862 Forest Row, Sussex ch: 26th Nov 1871 Holy Trinity Church |   | b: 1866 Forest Row, Sussex ch: 24th Feb 1867 Holy Trinity Church |   | b: 1871 Forest Row, Sussex ch: 26th Nov 1871 Holy Trinity Church |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |  
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|   |   |   |  |   | Jacob Heasman farm labourer |  | m: Jul to Sep 1857 |  | Mary Gillham |  |   |  |   | b: 1830 East Grinstead, Sussex ch: 21st Nov 1830 St Swithin Parish Church d: 21st Aug 1890 Forest Row, Sussex |   | b: 1828 Lingfield, Surrey |   |  |   |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |  |   | Mary Ann |   | Christopher George |   | John |   | Elizabeth |   | Henry |   | Julia |  |   | b: 1858 East Grinstead, Sussex ch: 5th Oct 1873 St Swithin Parish Church |   | b: 1861 East Grinstead, Sussex ch: 23rd Mar 1877 Holy Trinity Church, Forest Row, Sussex |   | b: 1863 East Grinstead, Sussex |   | b: 1865 Forest Row, Sussex |   | b: 1868 East Grinstead, Sussex |   | b: 1870 East Grinstead, Sussex |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  
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|   |   |  |   | John Gilham farm labourer |  | m: Oct to Dec 1862 |  | Anna Dartnell |  |   |  |   | b: 1834 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1843 Seal, Kent |   |  |   |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  | William |   | Frank |   | Charles |   | Kate |   | Mabel |   | Beatrice |   | John |   | Clement |  | b: 1863 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1870 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1871 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1873 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1877 Sittingbourne, Kent |   | b: 1879 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1880 Otford, Kent |   | b: Feb 1881 Otford, Kent |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  
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|   |   |  |   | John Gilham farm labourer |  | m: c 1863 |  | Anna |  |   |  |   | b: 1834 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1843 Seal, Kent |   |  |   |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  | William |   | Frank |   | Charles |   | Kate |   | Mabel |   | Beatrice |   | John |   | Clement |  | b: 1863 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1870 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1871 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1873 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1877 Sittingbourne, Kent |   | b: 1879 Otford, Kent |   | b: 1880 Otford, Kent |   | b: Feb 1881 Otford, Kent |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  
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|   |   |   |  |   | James Gillham |  | m: c 1867 |  | Harriett |  |   |  |   | b: 1845 Forest Row, Sussex |   | b: 1847 Buxted, Sussex |   |  |   |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |  |   | Allice |   | Jane |   | William |   | Henry |   | Mary |   | Edward |  |   | b: 1869 Maresfield, Sussex |   | b: 1870 Maresfield, Sussex |   | b: 1874 Maresfield, Sussex |   | b: 1876 Maresfield, Sussex |   | b: 1879 Maresfield, Sussex |   | b: May 1880 Maresfield, Sussex |  |   |   |   |   |   |   |   |  
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|   |   |   |  | 2nd marriage |  | Reuben Gilham |  | m: Apr to Jun 1879 |  | Elizabeth Cowlard |  |  | 2nd marriage |  |   | b: 1836 Otford, Kent |   |   | b: Oct to Dec 1845 Sevenoaks, Kent ch: 15th Mar 1846 St. Nicholas Parish Church |   |  
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|   |   |   |  | 2nd marriage |  | John Coates bricklayer |  | m: Jul to Sep 1892 |  | Fanny Gillam |  |  | 2nd marriage |  |   | b: 1831 Lewes, Sussex ch: 30th Oct 1831 d: Jan to Mar 1918 |   |   | b: 1842 Steyning, Sussex d: Apr to Jun 1921 |   |  
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